You've got to understand how to approach women if you're going to improve your sexual choices. The majority of guys, however, have no idea what to say to a random woman — and so they chicken out and say nothing at all, and blow their chance.
If they had simply grasped how to approach women, they could have easily gotten a phone number, a date, or even a Same Night Lay in that scenario.
In my e-book Mack Tactics I list a huge number of methods for approaching women, but for right now let me give you three ways to approach women to get you started.
How To Approach Women Technique #1, “Facebook Friends”: I like to use this method when I approach girls at bars. I smile and say to the girl, “Hey, I think I saw you on Facebook. We've got a friend in common.” This one works great because these days, practically everyone has a Facebook account. It's certainly possible that you have a friend in common.
Don't spend time talking to her about which Facebook friends you might possibly have in common. You've already Opened her; now transition to another topic so that you can build a connection with her.
How To Approach Women Technique #2, “Phone Flirting”: If she's using her cell phone, wait until she finishes her call or her text and then use this Opener: "Hi, what kind of phone is that? I need to buy a phone for a friend of mine, for her birthday, and I think that's the one she wants."
She'll tell you the type of phone she has, and then you ask if you can take a quick picture with her phone to see how good the camera is. Then take a picture of her — but have some fun with it, have her do a little “pose” for you.
Then you can show her your own phone. If yours is a lot less fancy than hers, you can mention that you need to buy a new phone, and ask her advice. On the other hand, if you've got a cool phone, you're demonstrating to her that you stay up on the cool and trendy new devices. That's a good thing. And even better, since both of you are now holding your phones, it becomes very easy to do the “phone number exchange” that I explain how to do in the Mack Tactics book.
How To Approach Women Technique 3, “The Birthday Gift”: Notice an interesting detail of her appearance — such as her handbag, necklace, earrings, dress, etc. Then say to her, "Excuse me, I really like that (fill in the blank). I need to buy a birthday gift for a friend of mine and I think she'd love something like that…where's a good place for me to go shopping?"
This opener is reliable because you're bringing up a topic that women naturally enjoy talking about. What girl doesn't like chatting about good places to shop? Also, by saying that you need to purchase a birthday present for a friend, you're sending the message that you're a generous and thoughtful guy; certainly these are characteristics any woman is impressed by.
BONUS TIP: If you find yourself struggling to identify "interesting details" about women that you can use to comment on, here's a helfpul exercise. Have a seat outside a coffee shop or cafe and spend thirty minutes or so casually watching the women walking past, and noticing details about them. Try to notice an interesting detail about every one of them. When you "train" your eye to notice these details, it becomes easy to do. When you become skilled at this, you will almost always be able to notice an interesting detail about a woman and make a comment that will break the ice.
Those were just a few tactics for approaching women. The key to learning how to approach women is to get out there and start practicing! Don't worry about rejection, just keep improving and before long approaching women will be a fun part of your daily routine.
The advanced tactics contained in our free, 75-page seduction manual will affect women on a powerful subconscious level. We ask you to please use these methods responsibly! For more specific tips on how to approach women and how to get girls to feel attracted to you, download our free, 75-page “S.W.A.T. Guide” (Secret Weapons & Attraction Tactics). Get your copy now while we are still giving it away!
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