What you are about to read is how intimacy in our relationship may benefit when cooking romantic dinner recipes. I had to write this article because we women are prone to bury our heads in the sand, and we fail at dealing head-on with realities of life.
One of those realities is that we wives ~and those considering to become one~ are losing our men faster then we believe. They may not leave us, but it is not few the times when slowly, gradually, and imperceptibly our companions in life are coming back to us after having affairs with other women. Many of us will never get to know it and some may suspect it. One way or the other, most of us do what we women are good at: to pretend.
According to my lengthy observations, men are creatures of nature. It is nature's designer the one telling men to take all the women they can. That designer does it through instincts towards the human female, a powerful sex drive, and a mighty substance scientists call Testosterone which feeds all of it.
Although it is socially and legally imposed for men to have one woman, men feel otherwise. It was so designed for a reason by the architect behind nature. No, it is not young men's fathers, older brothers, or uncles the ones who have the job of telling them. It is a deeply embedded cocktail of instincts, their powerful sex drive, and the mighty Testosterone the ones sending men a commanding and persuasive message.
I do not blame men going with the flow acting on what every fiber in their bodies and minds tell them to do. They comply with what the designer of nature mandates. They do it just like we women follow and act on our deeply embedded maternal instincts.
Wisely, that designer created a factor to influence and possibly dominate men's instincts: “Conscience”. When a man is in love, another woman does not count for him. His conscience acts as the only break that can stop that cocktail. In addition, LOVE makes him feel like walking to the moon or swim across an ocean for one woman, and one woman only.
Unfortunately, we women neglect our relationship believing that Marriage License guarantees a husband in love with us forever. A long time ago, I read something we women do not consider a fact of life:
Contentions of a wife are like a leaking roof which drives a husband away
Should we add to nature's designer's cocktail our own neglect for our relationship, plus the ingredient of women fanatically waving the flag of “I am equal to men” ~and in the process they end up in bed with a guy they met with at the office or other places regardless of whether he is married or not~ the risk to us wives losing our men balloons meaningfully.
I concluded that we wives must act sensibly, and when cooking romantic dinner recipes using our romantic food, we can successfully achieve a vital and valid goal: to keep our men coming back to us because they love us and not because they legally have to.
Cooking romantic dinner recipes with romantic food is the most efficient way to make stronger the bond with a husband by creating unforgettable romantic evenings. We must carefully plan all of it, and use our imagination so that we let him know how far we are willing to go for his love, and that he will not be living under a Leaking Roof.
Cooking romantic dinner recipes open the gates to events that get etched in his heart and ours. There is no more efficient way to bond with him. A woman wise enough to do something about it gives herself a magnificent chance when cooking her own romantic dinner recipes. That chance is to transform her romantic food into a bomb shell of nutrients to nourish both her and his health, and his stamina and virility.
I just hope and trust that I succeeded at making you aware that
we should not rush to point at our men with an accusing finger
for acting on instincts that nature's designer gave them, but
to become aware that we could benefit on our behalf when
<a href=”http://www.selfgrowth.com/articles/Cooking_Romantic_Dinner_recipes_Romantic_Food.html”>cooking romantic dinner recipes.
Author's Bio
* Sheryl Josserme
* Author of “Cooking For Your Man”
This author is a strong believer that intimacy is more than a Marriage License.
In her e-book, <a href=”http://www.fountain-of-wisdom.com/top-secret-recipes.html” target=”_new”>she unveils how cooking romantic dinner recipes to create truly
unforgettable romantic evenings can be used to bond with him before another
license becomes worthless.
