How Do You Repair A Broken Heart ? – by Brent James.
Ever have that sinking view wherever you suffer the pit of your tummy go right through your feet. Just like your riding a rocket fuelled elevator. For me that ride is just like the ride you get when your honey says “I'm departing!” You know it was a silly fight. You doubtless know in the format of things it was petty and absurd. Although for your own vanity, you could not let it go.
Maybe starting off with a difference of what you suspect like dining tonight. Then it just gets worse. swiftly earlier than you know it you are in a full blown dispute. Like a pit bull shaking a bone neither one of you will let it go. Names are called. Escalating until your love touches on that open wound. Perhaps you didn't know it except rapidly you have hit “pay dirt!” OMG why did I say that!
Then the awful realisationrealization cold seconds from the refrigerator is almost certainly the best thing on tonight's menu. That is if you can dine at all. You hear the car revving in the drive, a squeal of tyres and more rapidly than you can say 'regretful!' the sweetheart of your life is gone. The idea still hasn't sunk in as you are still in battle mode. Then at a snail's pace you start to cool down. You know they have to come back sooner or later. Although they don't.
Then the phone rings. You answer it, bar swiftly instead of being pitiful either you or you lover are at it again. A series of calls, texts and sudden silence. A long cold silence. They are gone. Perhaps forever.
At this point, you maybe are intuition like the cold turkey in the fridge after Thanksgiving. Plucked and torn to pieces. Then the idea of what you had. That extraordinary smile only for you. Those beautiful eyes. The kissable lips. Those many warm loving nights all together. Then nil! Gone! All alone. unexpectedly the first fat tear escapes your eye, running little by little down your cheek. Then the flood gates open. Poor me!
Although the urge to text and call every 5 minutes, this really is not the greatest time. More often than not even though you may be cool and ashamed, your honey may still be hurting.
This is just not a tiff nevertheless you know the other party has given you notice. The emotional, you are no longer required pay slip. In this position there is a myriad of emotions, of loss, of guilt, of hurt, shame and anger.
The very last thing you want to do is trigger a Nuclear Winter. Go little by little and think how you would like to be treated. Perhaps you may be at failing.
Perhaps even you have really done something wrong. If you have you can still salvage the circumstances. Nevertheless be warned. A text, an email or a phone call may not cut the mustard. If you are the guilty party leave it a few days. Write a short unreserved apology. “Dear ….. I am really sorry for hurting your feelings. I sense very bad about what happened realising it was my defect. You are a very good person and did not deserve this from me. honestly I hope you can exonerate me. Your love… etc.”
Send this note by mail. Give it a day or so, if you hear not anything then a quick phone call, just asking how they are. Whatever you do not start or become involved in another fight. Keep it light. Request if they want to meet over a coffee or no matter what it is that is appealing to them.
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